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Lisa Rinna Reveals the Promise She Had to Make to Her Husband Before Joining RHOBH

Lisa Rinna revealed she made a promise to her husband when she first joined โ€œThe Real Housewives of Beverly Hillsโ€ more than 10 years ago. In a January 2026 interview with In Style, the former Bravo star revealed that she followed her husband, Harry Hamlinโ€™s, advice not to drink alcohol on camera.

โ€œYeah, for five years,โ€ Rinna, 62, shared. โ€œMy husband said you cannot drink on that show, or you’re not going to do it. I took his advice there, and it was very good advice to take, because on a show like that, you need to stay clear[-headed] and you need to keep your wits about you. After five years, I was swayed to have a little bit more fun. But I’m really grateful that I did not drink for the first five years.โ€

RHOBH has always featured plenty of social events that involve drinking. While Rinna presumably didnโ€™t drink during the castโ€™s infamous trip to Amsterdam in season 5, she did have a glass of wine tossed at her by co-star Kim Richards.

Rinna admitted that even without alcohol, she doesnโ€™t feel like she sees herself when she watches old episodes of RHOBH. โ€œI always kind of saw myself and the other women as characters, even though we were playing ourselves,โ€ she admitted. โ€œWhen I watch it, it’s not like I’m necessarily watching myself. It’s almost like watching an actor playing myself.โ€

Rinna exited RHOBH in January 2023 after eight seasons.


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Hamlin has been vocal about his initial thoughts on his wife joining RHOBH. Speaking with The Daily Beast in 2019, the actor admitted he gave his wife a warning when she approached him about putting their lives on the reality show.

โ€œI have my divorce lawyer on speed dial, and I do,โ€ he revealed, referencing his past two divorces to exes Laura Johnson and Nicollette Sheridan. โ€œI said to Lisa, โ€˜You canโ€™t do this. Everybody who does that show gets divorced. Itโ€™s a horrible, horrible thing, to do that show.โ€™โ€

Hamlin added that he talked with โ€œReal Housewives of New York Cityโ€ veteran Bethenny Frankel, who convinced him that the ‘Housewivesโ€™ was “a good thing to doโ€ from a branding perspective. He even agreed to appear in some scenes for โ€œbrownie points.โ€


Harry Hamlin Admitted RHOBH Was a Good Experience for His Wifeโ€”And for Him

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Harry Hamlin and Lisa Rinna pose together at the Women’s Cancer Research Fund’s An Unforgettable Evening Benefit Gala 2023./Getty

Hamlin, who has been married to Rinna for nearly 30 years, said the show did not impact the couple in a negative way. While speaking with the Daily Mail in February 2025, he said, “We’ve always had a great relationship, it wasn’t even tested during the ‘Housewives’ thing.โ€

The show even helped Hamlin launch his own brand of jarred pasta sauce, Harryโ€™s Famous Sauce.

โ€œI have a lot of people on that show to thank for various things,โ€ he said on the coupleโ€™s โ€œLetโ€™s Not Talk About the Husbandโ€ podcast in 2025. โ€œI mean, I can thank Garcelle Beauvais for giving me this sauce business that I now have because had she not loved the sauce and then made a whole thing about [it]. I have the Open Food company, which came out of that moment. It’s amazing how things happened.โ€

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